If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.

1 Corinthians 13:3

You can give away all that you have…

Sacrifice everything you hold dear…

Spend every day serving others…

And still not be practicing genuine servant leadership.

If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing. (1 Corinthians 13:3)

Here on Earth, we can get mixed up about love. We think about love as a feeling — as a natural, positive emotional response to someone or something. We love our families, friends, and homes. We love our pets, hobbies, and vacations.

We love God.

But God tells us that love is so much more than just a feeling. It is a reflection of how we behave. And the people that work with you, and that you interact with daily, can see these visible behaviors of love in action. Or not.

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)

Which behaviors of love are you consistently choosing to step into?

Patience…

Kindness…

Humility…

Selflessness…

Forgiving…

Honesty…

Protecting…

Trusting…

Hoping…

Persevering.

When might you fall back into offering your service without love?

In order to boast…

Or magnify yourself…

Or settle a debt.

I want to be a reflection of Jesus in how I behave. I want to love others, everyone in fact. In this, I’ve got work to do. I think we all do.

Will you join me in taking stock not just of when and how you serve…but also of why?

Blessings,

If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.

1 Corinthians 13:1