Small things often make a big difference. Words are one major example of this. Servant leaders understand that their words can shape relationships, workplace culture, and any interactions they have.
I listened to a speaker last week that had spent 30 years serving on the Ohio State Highway Patrol. He was a master at the use of words. He shared how important it was when he was arresting someone to use words that showed the individual dignity and respect even in these tense, sometimes perilous situations.
In this situation the opposite would be an officer that was trying to show their positional power over the individual and just yelling at them and bossing them around telling them what to do. His choice of words made all the difference in making tough situations palatable.
Servant leaders are intentional about using “Life-giving words” as opposed to “Life-taking words”. They use words that will build self-esteem. They recognize that every word used in any interaction can make a significant difference in a person’s life.
Life-giving words / phrases might include:
- You are doing a fabulous job
- Our team would not be the same without you
- You are amazing
- You are a true blessing
- I am proud of you
- You are created exactly the way God wanted you
- Thanks
It is also important to recognize that your vision for a preferred future can come alive with words. If you want to see it…. Say it! Words are powerful.
If you want to change your life – change your words.
If you want to change the world – change your words.
The Right Word is a gift. If you can’t say something helpful to someone, just skip it and don’t say it. Choosing life-giving words will Build Energy.
I am committing to do a better job of closely selecting my words, and using more life-giving words. Will you join me? I think we can alter our world if we do!
Mark
Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. Ephesians 4:29
You did a remarkable job with the “life-giving words” concept. These are critical to our success as individuals, as well as being a great way to fully engage those around us. Well done!
Thanks so much David. I really appreciate your feedback. Plus, you just gave me some real “life-giving words”!! Blessings to you and the great work you are doing.
Good points made!
Thanks Rita. Hope all is well over in Germany!
Thank you, yes – quite well. I am in the middle of the “how to make money” struggle!
Great to hear things are going well. What have you found effective in providing value to others? I’ll be praying for you as you progress in this journey.
….so far, the requests after my workshops for info were bigger than the concepts I offered. Means: there is a market to serve and I need to create new concepts, smaller (time-wise) and diverse. I offered a big concept to train the whole decision process and not only fragments. I have to adjust my strategy! Nothing really effective yet – I am not there – way to go!
Thx. for asking, Mark.
Outstanding job listening to your clients and how you can best serve them. Wishing you all the best Rita!